But what has changed is the way I think about what I have now.
I watched my income grow consistently, only to realize my health and relationships were suffering. Then I focused on my health, and the money would slow down.
I honestly believed it had to be one or the other. If I wanted to be wealthy, I had to give up something else, and vice versa. It's a level of scarcity thinking I laugh about today.
And it's a journey I'm still on, if we're being honest. There are still things I'm working on — goals I've set, dreams I'm creating, and things I want. I doubt that will ever change.
I'd get one area of my life where I wanted it, only to watch another fall behind.
I struggled with abundance for years.
I say that because of where I am today, and where I started.
I tried every tool, technique, tip, and course available to increase my abundance and manifest the kind of life I craved. But it didn't work consistently.
Yes, I managed to achieve a few of my goals — for awhile — but they never stuck. And the reason is this: I had to do some deeper work that I'd been avoiding (like the plague) before the standard manifestation tools would work for me.
So know this: if you've tried everything, and it's still not working, there's probably something deeper going on that you need to address first.
But it's still possible to have the kind of life you love — and one you want. I'm proof of that.
I'm not a poster child for positive thinking, and I don't believe you need to be, either.
After you start appreciating the life you have now, the rest of it falls into place easily.
I believe that's the true meaning of abundance.
It has been one of the keys to opening myself up to the flow of more. More money, more love, more adventure.
More abundance.
There's still more work to do beyond that, believe me, but this is the first secret I want you to know:
Strive for more, but appreciate everything you have going for you now.
It is 100% possible to be happy with yourself and your life now, and still want more.
Coaching
Therapy
Journaling
Human Design
Breathwork
Meditation
Visualization
Tarot / Oracle Cards
Crystals
Vision Boarding
Tools I've used in my journey to abundance:
Money Mindset
Childhood Trauma
Self-Care / Love
Gratitude
Perfectionism
Anxiety
Endless to-do lists
SElf-Criticism
Sense of Safety
relationship with food
